How do I know what help I need and if it will help?
I appreciate there is a lot of information on my site, so I have developed a pathway to help you decide what you need (if anything) and what will work best for you.

This page will take you through
What helps with what? For example, what is the best option if I have anxiety?
Do I need therapy or self-help?
I am not sure what is wrong with me
Start with a test
Test for Anxiety/ Stress Go to test
Test for Social Anxiety Go to test
Test for Panic Disorder Go to test
Guidelines
Some guidelines tell us what to do and what works best.
We do not have guidelines as such in Ireland, but because and I am trained and registered in the UK, I shall refer to the UK guidelines: The National Institute for Clinical Excellence – NICE (for short.)
According to the guidelines, the evidence based treatments are
- Medication – I am a psychologist and do not prescribe, but you can chat with your GP about what medication options are open to you.
- Psychological Therapies – this is where I come in as a psychologist.
For most things that fall under the umbrella of mood – stress, insomnia, racing mind, worry, anxiety, panic, social anxiety, health anxiety, low mood, depression, self-esteem and confidence, it is recommended that you undertake
- CBT – Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
Do I need therapy or self-help?
I generally recommend self-help first. When I worked in the NHS in the UK, computerized CBT was the first port of call, and the research shows that people do well with this, with many not needing to come for face-to-face sessions.
Choosing how to learn and get help
You can compare professional therapy with structured self-paced psychological learning.
My self-paced programmes provide explanations and practical exercises. Explore the curriculum to see whether the programme fits your goals.
Check each programme’s sales page for its curriculum, access period and current terms.
A useful programme should explain the skills it teaches and how you will practise them. Read the curriculum and preview material before choosing.
Online therapy involves sessions with a qualified practitioner. Ask about their approach, experience, fees and suitability for your needs.
For help comparing options, read my guide to therapy and online courses.
It is, of course, a personal choice,
How do I check professional expertise?
Look for clear qualifications, relevant experience and a transparent explanation of the approach.
Professional credentials help you evaluate training; you can also ask how a practitioner’s experience relates to the difficulty you want help with.
You can read about my doctoral training, BPS chartership and clinical background on my About page.
Personal fit matters too. Consider whether the practitioner or learning material explains things clearly and helps you make informed choices.
Related reading: low-cost counselling options; whether music can be therapeutic; learning to be your own therapist.
